How to find a woman for one night? (part 2)
See part 1 here
Another piece of advice I am going to give you on how to find a woman for a one night stand is to take responsibility for your intentions.
Don't lie to the women you meet. Don't make them think you're looking for a spouse or a lover when you just want to have fun for the night.
When you meet a girl, the question "what are you looking for in our relationship?" is inevitable. You have to be prepared the answer to this
question. I, personally, when a woman asks me this question, I always answer more or less the same thing:
“I'm not particularly looking for
a relationships." I know that when you're looking for a relationship than most of the time it goes wrong. But, hey, I say that out loud, I
know that I can meet an amazing girl tomorrow and fall in love with her.
Answering like that, I make it clear that I am not looking for a
serious relationship. But I also express that I am aware of a possibility to meet the woman of my life at any moment. Women understand this
very well and they always appreciate my honesty.
On top of that, this kind of response turns roles slightly and becomes the prize. Women
know that you are demanding and that they will have to put in some effort if they want more than just a night out with you.
What I'm trying
to tell you is that you will be more successful if you take responsibility for your intentions with girls, rather than hiding them in order
to achieve your goal.
